Monday Madness: Final 100 random things about fragileheart

So, who thought I had forgotten about the final 25? Tsk tsk. I guess you don’t know me that well… even after all this revelation. Anyway, enjoy the last bits of me:

  1. I was Prom Queen in HS1.
  2. I don’t think it means as much as some people make it out to be.
  3. I am in debt and have only really begun to amend my situation this year. This debt is not due to University but due to my own lack of self-control.
  4. Balance is something that’s extremely prevalent in my life. If something goes extremely well, I can be guaranteed something will go extremely wrong. I have no examples to give to you at this point in time.
  5. My online moniker is fragileheart because when I was 16 I got my heart shattered to a million pieces. I was a huge fan of Jewel (still am) and she had a song called, “Fragile Heart” that perfectly described how I was feeling.
  6. The chorus went along the lines of, “The Surgeon’s general should do their part; warning, beware, be careful, fragile heart”. Its been 11 years and I still use that name online.
  7. When you google fragileheart, I’m pretty sure I’m first in the results. But when you google Fragile Heart, the lyrics to the song by Yolanda is first.
  8. I’ve fallen in love and gotten my heart broken at least 5 times. I don’t regret a thing.
  9. Despite the last few points you just read, I actually don’t have a very fragile heart2.
  10. I believe that pain is there to remind us that we’re still alive. When you stop feeling pain, your life stops being worth living. It means you’re not fighting for something worthwhile.
  11. I’m a very understanding person. Provided you give me something to understand. If you talk to me, I will force myself to understand your situation or position but if you assume I will figure it out for myself – I won’t.
  12. I guess this means I’m not as perceptive as I like to think I am.
    Or it could be due to the fact that I don’t like to assume things about people.
  13. I don’t like to exercise. I will wear myself out doing any sort of activity but ask me to do some repetitive exercises and I’ll run away3.
  14. I dislike negative nancies (or normans); People can disagree with something but you don’t have to be negative or insulting to get your point across.
  15. I believe that people make their own luck; if you think you’ve got bad luck then that is all that the universe will throw at you.
  16. I’ve gotten myself in many undesireable situations because I’m too nice to say no to people. I’m learning to get better, but its a slow process.
  17. There’s a quote from Heroes that scares me, “To be truly happy a man must live absolutely in the present. No thought of what has gone before and no thought of what lies ahead… but a for a life of meaning, a man is condemned to wallow in the past and obsess about the future.” It scares me because I believe there is truth to it.
  18. My short term memory is horrible. I have to write things down to remember them and sometimes even that fails me. Because of this, I sincerely dislike voicemail messages. Especially at work. I will reply to you within 2 seconds if you email me, I may take 2 hours4 to reply if you leave me a voicemail.
  19. I have a birth mark on the inside of my left thigh in the shape of a heart5, and my Dad has the same birth mark.
  20. I’m not sure I know myself. This is because I’m constantly struggling between the person that I am6 and the person that I would like to be.
  21. I would honestly prefer to believe that everyone is inately good, but I’m not oblivious to the fact that some people are just evil. Unfortunately, I don’t know the answer as to why.
  22. I am nice to strangers. But as soon as someone shows me any un-deserved negativity, I tend to return the favour three-fold.
  23. I love giving people presents. I also love receiving presents but just because I give you one doesn’t mean I expect one from you.
  24. My bladder must be the size of a clementine, I usually have to go very often. More so when I’m cold than when I’m warm though.
  25. I re-ordered this list at least 5 times to make sure all related topics stick together. I guess this means I don’t know the meaning of ‘random’. It was difficult to decide where to cut off all four parts, but I decided to go for the numberical values rather than by topic.

Other posts in this series:
100 random things about fragileheart – Part 1 of 4.
100 random things about fragileheart – Part 2 of 4.
100 random things about fragileheart – Part 3 of 4.
Final 100 random things about fragileheart7.

  1. VPSS []
  2. anymore []
  3. or punch you hehe []
  4. if not more []
  5. its not a perfect heart but you’d recognise it as a heart if you ever saw it []
  6. whoever she may be []
  7. you are here []

responses to “Monday Madness: Final 100 random things about fragileheart” 11

  1. I like #85. I totally agree, but it is difficult to keep that in mind during difficult/painful times.

    I really enjoyed learning more about fragileheart. Lots of interesting and honest things.

    I have been thinking about doing something similar but with less items, and actually have my readers ask questions about stuff they want to know. I need more readers before I can do that though!

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  2. Your list is extremely honest. I’m not sure I could do it myself! It’s interesting reading about the origin of ‘fragileheart’ and to see you’ve kept it going for so long!

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  3. I put off reading your lists as I wanted to read all of them at one go. Some interesting facts in there. You are a lot braver than I am, I would never be able to be that honest. A nice series and it was worth waiting for the last one.

    When I started reading the lists I said to myself, this lady is going to tell us she was a prom queen. As true as cookies, there it was, in the final list. It does seem as if we actually do get to know and understand one another even if it is just via the Net.

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  4. @Ken: Honesty? Damnit… was I supposed to be honest in this thing?! hehehe j/k 😉

    @Ayprel: It’d be great wouldn’t it? To have your blog entries (or for me my personal written diary entries) turned into a book (a la Anne Frank) all though my life is definitely not as interesting as hers was!

    @trench: My king was the school clown, but everyone liked him and obviously the reason he won. My bf at the time did not win but he didn’t care – he said he had his Queen. CORNY!!

    And yes, my Dad and I have identical birthmarks… in the exact same spot on our bodies!!

    @Rufina: Awh I love you for commenting! And I love that we have so much in common!! hahaha

  5. 76. that’s cool!
    88. Who does like to exercise? it’s a chore but must be done!
    93. I already forgot what you wrote. lol. seriously I have an even worse memory than you. Hence the forgetting bags in change rooms even after I reminded myself not to.
    97. same here. treat me badly and I will ignore you forever.
    99. i have to pee now.

  6. [QUOTE]I have a birth mark on the inside of my left thigh in the shape of a heart5, and my Dad has the same birth mark.[QUOTE]

    Just read this one! LOL.. Hopefully not in the same place? haha

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  7. #95 and #99 – I, too, have a small bladder. I have to watch what I eat. I can’t drink liquids with aspartame or suclarose because it irritates my bladder. I also have a hard time knowing myself… as you read in “Fit In”. I also agree that writing helps a lot for issues as well. I blog the way I do right now, because I would like to turn it into a book. I want every entry I write to have meaning as if I was writing in my own journal, but with some anonymity mixed in.

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  8. lol Andy, you were Prom Queen at high school too!? I think that makes me your nemesis 😉

  9. wow, I could copy and paste most of that and it would apply to me. you could be my long lost twin, oh wait, or even my nemesis! 😉

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